OPENING A CLOSED MIND

It’s so easy to be judgmental, particularly if you’ve come from a family like mine who had narrow visions of life, love and especially sex.  It’s so easy to be judgmental that often we don’t even know we are.  I was in a 15 year marriage and thought I was very liberal-minded.

For me to open my mind sexually I needed to want a change in my life very badly.  I decided I wasn’t willing to continue life with a limited sex drive and no satisfaction.  I was fortunate that I asked the right person (my urologist, a woman) for information and that she was willing and able to give it.  I could have asked a different doctor and received an entirely different response.

The interesting thing for me about opening up my mind was that the more I opened it, the more exciting sex became.  Anything was possible!  That didn’t mean every idea that was brought up to me or that I might have stumbled upon was desirable or comfortable.  But it was a choice, and that was new, and exhilarating.

If you are not satisfied, either from solo sex or sex with a partner, or not having any kind of sex, perhaps you can ask yourself “am I a closed-minded individual disguising myself as open-minded?  Could I possibly be depriving myself of exciting sex because I say ‘no’ to too many ideas or opportunities?'”  One good thing about Judgments is that they can be lifted, and what’s underneath could be a fun surprise, a whole new you willing to experiment sexually in ways you had not thought of before.  Joy awaits!

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One comment on “OPENING A CLOSED MIND
  1. GREAT LADY GOOD FOR YOU MORE SHOULD BE LIKE YOU AND ENJOY ALL THE BEST AND WELL DONE

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